How do Malayali weddings differ from weddings in other parts of India?

Traditionally, Malayali weddings are known for their simplicity and elegance, and the main wedding ceremony is short, meaningful, and focused only on essential rituals.

However, Malayali weddings have evolved in the recent past, and today many couples blend their traditional customs with rituals from other parts of India, especially from North India.

Characteristics of traditional Malayali weddings

The main wedding ritual usually lasts less than one hour, and most of the ceremonies are held during the daytime, mainly in temples or wedding halls. Key rituals include thali kettu (tying of the mangalsutra), exchange of garlands, and blessings from elders, with fewer ceremonial steps compared to other regions.

Brides traditionally wear a kasavu saree, while grooms wear a mundu with a shirt or angavastram.

A traditional Kerala wedding always includes a vegetarian sadya served on a banana leaf.

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Influence and adoption of North Indian rituals

In recent times, many Malayali weddings have started including popular North Indian pre-wedding celebrations, but the core rituals remain deeply rooted in Kerala culture. The inclusion of North Indian customs reflects the desire for more joyful and celebratory wedding experiences.

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Haldi was once uncommon in Kerala weddings but is now popular for its fun, informal nature and visual appeal. The same applies to Mehandi functions as well. Brides increasingly choose elaborate mehendi celebrations generally planned as separate events with décor, music, and matching outfits.

Inspired by North Indian and destination weddings, sangeet nights and cocktail parties are becoming common, especially in urban and luxury weddings. All these add up to two or three days of celebrations from a day event earlier.